by Qurat ul ain
Depression is an unavoidable fact, a disease which must be cured but for this it must be addressed properly and openly. In our society- typical Asians- it is not accepted a disease rather when it is heard that someone is suffering from depression, he is ridiculed by saying that depression doesn’t exist, its just a melodrama. This is mostly claimed by the elders of our society. This attitude must be changed. Our youth is depressed. I don’t know why but I’ve seen mostly students being the depressed souls. Some of our ‘wise elders’ claimed that it has become a fashion to be called depressed that’s why it is common in youngsters. But this is not true. Instead of denying the fact that our new generation is depressed we must try to cure it.
In my opinion, depression prevailing in youngsters is inculcating by the society. Almost Every youngster is in depression, some are tensed because of their career, some are conscious of their grades, some are worried about their poor financial conditions, some are worried about their relationship and so on. All these tensions lead to over thinking, which is also a disease, also a root cause of depression. It is like a termite which eats up all the abilities and capabilities of a man.
To be worried about grades, financial conditions, career is not bad but to be depressed due to all this is not acceptable. No one would depress due to all these worries if there would be no judgmental society. It is the judgmental people in our society who lead our generation to the demon of depression. People should understand that being a school teacher doesn’t mean that a person is not respectable citizen as compared to the person serving in public commission. First of all there should be no comparison of being respectable whether the person is a school teacher, a CSP officer, a doctor, an engineer, a gatekeeper, a guard. Everyone is respectable if he/she is not committing any criminal activity. But the society, people around, judge on the basis of the job a person is doing by comparing them with the merits of success and respect they have set in their minds. They are being judged on the basis of the merits of the office, not on personal merits. Most of the students are depressed due to low grades, they have fear of being judged on the basis of the grades which is inevitably true. I’ve seen many of the students crying in washrooms, sports complex, corners of gardens in the university and the reasons are the same which I’ve mentioned. Some are being depressed due to not being acceptable to people just because they are told that they are not beautiful or fat or dressing or having weird voice etc, some are worried due to grades, some have financial problems, some have family problems, some are conscious of grades. They would not be depressed if they are not judged by the society on the basis of grades, jobs, financial conditions or having a different personality. If they would told that it is okay to be different, it is okay to have low grades, they would not suffer from this disease.